shmlog: store meta information in the buffer itself, store path as X11 atom

This makes i3-dump-log completely independent of a running i3 instance.

i3-config-wizard/main.c

@@ -410,7 +410,7 @@ int main(int argc, char *argv[]) {
     unlink(config_path);
 
     if (socket_path == NULL)
-        socket_path = socket_path_from_x11();
+        socket_path = root_atom_contents("I3_SOCKET_PATH");
 
     if (socket_path == NULL)
         socket_path = "/tmp/i3-ipc.sock";